Why is Saying Goodbye So Hard? Coping with the death of a pet

I was inspired to write this book when I lost my bunny Bowie in 2020. He died very suddenly of GI stasis despite emergency veterinarian care. Bowie had been my constant companion for two years and losing him felt like losing a part of myself. Bowie had such a big personality and everyone who met him was devastated to hear of his death.

Bowie was already a senior bunny when I adopted him so I knew that I would not have him for a long time. This made me cherish even more all the time that I did have with him. I spent every possible moment loving, snuggling, and playing with him. My parents did too! One of the ways I cope with his loss is by reminding myself that I gave him the best life I possibly could. He received love and affection from so many people. Bowie was a very special bunny.

About a month after he passed another bunny, Potato, needed a home for Christmas. I wasn’t sure if I was ready for another pet so quickly but how could I not help a bunny in need? I brought Potato home and he immediately settled in clicked with my chinchilla, Cheech! Now the three of us live happily together.

I want to honor Bowie’s memory by helping others understand and cope with losing a pet. Moving forward after a death is hard, but always achievable with love and support.

-Erin Dolores Bambery